FAIR TRADE~ by LuCy sMiLeS

"Sometimes the Best Parts of Life, are Getting Through the Bad Parts"
LoVe LuCy

It is no wonder when we are communicating with others, there can be a block of understanding, from one person to another.

Not only are we so different, we have lived different lives, with different experiences, which have shaped the way we think, act, and feel about life. While we are ultimately responsible for how we carry ourselves, we can have insight as to how so, by looking at the behaviours we are carrying from our past.

We are not perfect- that is fair to say.

But playing fair and giving others a fair shot at sharing their thoughts and feelings is a perfect way to live happily in a not so perfect World.

Our relationships with ourselves, and others are ever changing.

As is our assertion in changing limiting beliefs that are no longer serving us.

We are continuously making decisions every moment we are creating our lives within our own individual dynamics and dynamics of the connections with those around us.

Sometimes, in our attempt to share our feelings, we can beat around the bush, stumble over our words, to the point of breaking down altogether, when doing our best to break down our emotions to others .

When growing relationships, we have a balance of give and take, in many aspects.

Like a lever, we push and pull, in hopes that our partners are able to work in harmony within this.

Sometimes, our pulling for attention and power to speak over another, can push them away.

By being more conscious of how our thoughts and behaviours affect the dynamic of our desired relationships, we can begin to ask ourselves:

"What role do I play? How is this playing out in my relationships? Am I playing fair in my trade of feelings to those I love?"

In the heat of the moment, we can have the burning desires to take the floor.

But we can be floored at the results of our efforts, when acting on being fairly calm and collected in our conversations and giving our loved one a fair shot at doing the same.

LoVe,

LuCy sMiLeS